Well, I do not know if you guys have read my previous 'nagging' post. It is also for the, almost the same, situation. But in this post, please do not take it too hard. It is only my opinion. It is just something I want to tell my best mates. This is a disclaimer. Here I go...
After reading and listening to you babes, I could not help but wonder what were you babes thinking and doing back then. Yes I agree I have no right to say this because I do not understand the situation you are in. But I could not help but wonder so badly about it because you guys are my dearest.
Why are these happening to you? Why did you handle it this way? You hurt that person you love or you had once loved because you want them to stop, to hate you and to forget about you? No, it will not work. It will only make things worse as it will hurt both parties. Why? Ask yourselves how are you really feeling? Do you feel happy now? Did you really forget about them? Did you really stop thinking about them? Missing them? Did you think they will forget about you? Will not be missing you? Again, I do not know what you guys are going through, but definitely there is a better way. Come on. Every problem has a heck lots of ways to handle it. The path will not lead you to one only.
Because of religion, you let go. You gave up on it. You gave up on a once-a-happy moment. I will have to agree on the long distance relationships being hard to be together. But why getting religions into this and spoil it for you? A friend of mine once said "'RELIGION' is only a word. It is just a vocabulary. We believe in the same person." But we did it a different way. As in, we have a religion. We believe in our God. But we believe in the same one. Go read the teachings. The only difference is we believe in a different way. Why? Why letting this be an excuse to give up? To let go of something you want it to last long? To pick a path where chose to hurt that person just to make that person go away? So that is what religion has taught you? If you like him so much and could not forget about him, why torture yourself. Didn't religion taught us to be happy? I am, again, truly sorry for being harsh and if you think I am being a nosey friend.
"You guys are addicted to the impossibles" a friend said. But how come it is impossible? If it is, you will not even give it a try or chose that person to be with in the first place. Why? You were not happy with them? When you were with them, did not you feel the happiness plus a few hints of bitterness? Was not that something to be memorable about? Why? Are you regretting something you once gave a try and started? No! What is wrong with feeling loved. So? Is it still impossible? Nothing is impossible. You know it is something different then. You know it was not an impossible thing then. You know you can not stop or control that thing you are feeling. So now you are regretting you had once started something happy? Why regret? Be proud about it. You are an example for all of us. You guys started something new to show us it IS POSSIBLE! Again, sorry for saying that because I do not understand the situation you are in and is speaking freely out of my mind.
They still bother you. They still miss you. They promise you will have a happy future and life with them. If they can say that, trust them. They mean it. (If they did not mean it, just whack the crap out of them.) Why are you stopping them from doing what they think is right? They have every rights to do that. You knew them better. You knew their character. Didn't you feel that they mean it? Or faking it? You will feel it. Trust me. You can feel it. If you like them (or love them), why? Why letting the parents getting in the way? They are parents. Though they might not agree. But this is your life! They want you to be happy, too. They won't take away something your happiness. They won't force you to do something or choose stuff you do not like. The thing is, speak your mind and feeling. They will understand. They might nag and nag and nag you loads. But still. They will understand. Well, yes. I tried. They nagged. The next day, they soften. They agreed. So I won the debate. HAHAHAHAHA!!
If you want the other party to stop, why don't you do it nicely for the both of you to let go? It will hurt you, too. We are friends. We will be worried about you guys, too. Do not think of stuff like "I should not have started this in the first place." or "what the heck was I thinking then" or "yes, I am happy without him" or "this was impossible in the first place and I HAD to go forward and start things". Why regret? They were beautiful stories in your life. Not everyone can do what you guys had done. You have started something wonderful and beautiful for us to witness and ponder over. You have shown us something which people say will not work out. You have proven them so wrong which shut them up. I used to not believe in these. But you changed my thoughts. You guys showed me that it is possible. Heck! What is the wrong with the colours. They are just colours. It is just skin. Look at Michael Jackson (kekekekeke!!).
Well, that will be all I want to let out. Do not regret what you've done. Do not regret something or someone which once made you laugh when you do not even feel like laughing. You can still fix it. You can still mend the hearts. If you chose to let go, you can still turn back and end it nicely where the both parties will go off without getting hurt. Do not say your life is happy without that other party now. You know that is a lie. That will be heck too fast. LOL!!
Anyway, I had disclaimed this post. You can scold me if you want to for not understanding. You have every rights to do whatever you want because I did not ask properly and did not feel the situation you are in and just speaking what I think and what my mind wants to tell you babes. You guys are dear to us. We definitely do not want you to be like that. You guys were the bubbliest and happiest. Seeing that go or faking it will just make things different.
Love you guys loads!! And sorry if it is harsh.
After reading and listening to you babes, I could not help but wonder what were you babes thinking and doing back then. Yes I agree I have no right to say this because I do not understand the situation you are in. But I could not help but wonder so badly about it because you guys are my dearest.
Why are these happening to you? Why did you handle it this way? You hurt that person you love or you had once loved because you want them to stop, to hate you and to forget about you? No, it will not work. It will only make things worse as it will hurt both parties. Why? Ask yourselves how are you really feeling? Do you feel happy now? Did you really forget about them? Did you really stop thinking about them? Missing them? Did you think they will forget about you? Will not be missing you? Again, I do not know what you guys are going through, but definitely there is a better way. Come on. Every problem has a heck lots of ways to handle it. The path will not lead you to one only.
Because of religion, you let go. You gave up on it. You gave up on a once-a-happy moment. I will have to agree on the long distance relationships being hard to be together. But why getting religions into this and spoil it for you? A friend of mine once said "'RELIGION' is only a word. It is just a vocabulary. We believe in the same person." But we did it a different way. As in, we have a religion. We believe in our God. But we believe in the same one. Go read the teachings. The only difference is we believe in a different way. Why? Why letting this be an excuse to give up? To let go of something you want it to last long? To pick a path where chose to hurt that person just to make that person go away? So that is what religion has taught you? If you like him so much and could not forget about him, why torture yourself. Didn't religion taught us to be happy? I am, again, truly sorry for being harsh and if you think I am being a nosey friend.
"You guys are addicted to the impossibles" a friend said. But how come it is impossible? If it is, you will not even give it a try or chose that person to be with in the first place. Why? You were not happy with them? When you were with them, did not you feel the happiness plus a few hints of bitterness? Was not that something to be memorable about? Why? Are you regretting something you once gave a try and started? No! What is wrong with feeling loved. So? Is it still impossible? Nothing is impossible. You know it is something different then. You know it was not an impossible thing then. You know you can not stop or control that thing you are feeling. So now you are regretting you had once started something happy? Why regret? Be proud about it. You are an example for all of us. You guys started something new to show us it IS POSSIBLE! Again, sorry for saying that because I do not understand the situation you are in and is speaking freely out of my mind.
They still bother you. They still miss you. They promise you will have a happy future and life with them. If they can say that, trust them. They mean it. (If they did not mean it, just whack the crap out of them.) Why are you stopping them from doing what they think is right? They have every rights to do that. You knew them better. You knew their character. Didn't you feel that they mean it? Or faking it? You will feel it. Trust me. You can feel it. If you like them (or love them), why? Why letting the parents getting in the way? They are parents. Though they might not agree. But this is your life! They want you to be happy, too. They won't take away something your happiness. They won't force you to do something or choose stuff you do not like. The thing is, speak your mind and feeling. They will understand. They might nag and nag and nag you loads. But still. They will understand. Well, yes. I tried. They nagged. The next day, they soften. They agreed. So I won the debate. HAHAHAHAHA!!
If you want the other party to stop, why don't you do it nicely for the both of you to let go? It will hurt you, too. We are friends. We will be worried about you guys, too. Do not think of stuff like "I should not have started this in the first place." or "what the heck was I thinking then" or "yes, I am happy without him" or "this was impossible in the first place and I HAD to go forward and start things". Why regret? They were beautiful stories in your life. Not everyone can do what you guys had done. You have started something wonderful and beautiful for us to witness and ponder over. You have shown us something which people say will not work out. You have proven them so wrong which shut them up. I used to not believe in these. But you changed my thoughts. You guys showed me that it is possible. Heck! What is the wrong with the colours. They are just colours. It is just skin. Look at Michael Jackson (kekekekeke!!).
Well, that will be all I want to let out. Do not regret what you've done. Do not regret something or someone which once made you laugh when you do not even feel like laughing. You can still fix it. You can still mend the hearts. If you chose to let go, you can still turn back and end it nicely where the both parties will go off without getting hurt. Do not say your life is happy without that other party now. You know that is a lie. That will be heck too fast. LOL!!
Anyway, I had disclaimed this post. You can scold me if you want to for not understanding. You have every rights to do whatever you want because I did not ask properly and did not feel the situation you are in and just speaking what I think and what my mind wants to tell you babes. You guys are dear to us. We definitely do not want you to be like that. You guys were the bubbliest and happiest. Seeing that go or faking it will just make things different.
Love you guys loads!! And sorry if it is harsh.
